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with Kaytie Sproul

Learn online dating don'ts so that you can improve your experiences and chances of success. Here are some important online dating don'ts.See Transcript

Transcript:Online Dating Don'ts

Hi, I'm Kaytie Sproul, here for About.com, and today we're going to talk about online dating don'ts.

So, you've finally decided to give online dating a try –- congratulations! You've probably already spent a fair amount of time perusing through the profiles of potential dating candidates, as well as building your own profile. As you delve further into this process, there are plenty of things you can do to put your best face forward; however, there are a few things you absolutely don't want to do.

Online Dating Don't: No Cliched Headlines

Consider the following: As the saying goes, "You only get one chance to make a first impression." When creating your dating headline, do not choose a phrase that is clichéd or over-used -- for example, "I might be the one you're looking for," or "I'm the one your mother warned you about." These are two commonly used phrases and will not help to set you apart or seem interesting.

If you're having trouble with your headline, or you're worried that most of your ideas may come across as contrived, check out your competition. This should give you a pretty good idea of what not to do, and just might help to inspire your creative side.

Online Dating Don't: No Picture-Less Profiles

Next, don't forget to upload a recent photo of yourself when building your profile. You will have dozens, even hundreds, of potential suitors skip right over you because they can't see that winning smile or your beautiful eyes.

Profiles without pictures also seem incomplete, as though you haven't truly committed to the thought of online dating. It can also come across as deceptive -- what have you got to hide? Few of us like to be photographed, but now's not the time to be shy, so do yourself a favor and include a picture of yourself.

Online Dating Don't: No Lying About Yourself

Finally, don't lie on your profile or as you begin to correspond with people of interest on the site. I'm not saying that you need to reveal every little secret, but there are certain things about which you need to be completely honest.

Be truthful and up-front about your age, marital status, whether or not you have children, religious beliefs, and physical attributes. These are things that can make or break a relationship, and lying about them will only delay inevitable consequences. You've put a lot of thought, time, and money into online dating, so don't waste your efforts by making common mistakes. Be creative, courageous, and honest and your online dating investment will pay dividends.

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